vice-versa
Senangnya ketika melihat sesuatu yang kita inginkan akhirnya gonjreng di depan mata. Timbul reaksi orgasme emosi yang terkadang luber dari mangkuknya , ada sesuatu yang melibatkan emosi menyeruput otak serta menciutkan realitas.
The reverse of the previous statement, with the main items transposed. It derives from Latin, with the translation being ‘the other way round’ or ‘the position being reversed’, but is now fully absorbed into English. It is usually used to imply the complement of a statement without expressing as much in words. (http://www.phrases.org.uk)
dan selanjutnya kita harus bangun
ada saatnya kita pun akan merasa
when you’re not with him/her anymore…
- Tidak perlu berjanji akan berteman baik, tadinya pun kalian bukan teman baik, tapi dua orang yang saling jatuh cinta.
Tidak perlu terlalu banyak bercerita ke orang-orang alasan kamu putus (versi kamu) karena nantinya cerita-cerita kamu akan balik lagi ke telinga kamu dengan versi yang berbeda (versi dia).
Jangan putus hubungan dengan teman-temannya
Kalau nanti ternyata kamu jatuh cinta dengan temannya itu silakan 
(writer’s block)
Tidak perlu repot-repot bertanya tentang kehidupan pribadinya lagi, itu sama dengan mencari emas di mulut harimau.
“My Mama always said you’ve got to put the past behind you
before you can move on”
(Tom Hanks - Forrest Gump)
–quote yang ga pernah basi untuk ditulis dua kali–
Re : takut
takut
for everyone
Perasaan tidak aman, memicu ketidaknyamanan.
Sumber awalnya, adalah ketidakpercayaan.
Tak punya pegangan dan tempat berlindung.
Tak ada jaminan yang bisa membuat diri yakin.
Yakin bahwa bisa melewati apapun, dan bisa selamat sampai di tujuan.
Jawabannya cuma satu: percayalah.
Nggak ada cara lain, kecuali ikhlas.
Jangan pernah terikat sama apapun di dunia ini,
kecuali satu: Sang Maha Kuasa.
Dia telah menentukan yang baik,
bagi hamba-Nya yang menginginkan kebaikan.
Mana yang mau kamu pilih?
(Amin Ya Rabbal ’Alamin…)
Tuhan berkehendak atas kuasaNya sendiri, kemaren saya bingung sama ketakutan saya sendiri, kebetulan (ga pernah ada sesuatu yang ’kebetulan’ di dunia ini ya?).
Saya baca tulisan Hagi disini.
Makasih Hagi, buat sesuatu-yang-sebenernya-ga-maksud-ke-saya-secara-khusus
I Thank you Hagi..
PS: saya minta ijin langsung sama Hagi buat co-pas tulisan ini ya
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björk
Saya ga nonton Björk, saya juga ga terlalu hafal sama lagu-lagunya dia.
Tapi saya tau satu kata buat Björk : Eksentrik dan Hi-tech!
dari beberapa review liputan yang saya baca kemarin, sempet bikin saya tercengang n bilang “Waaaa.. Keren banget!” dan akhirnya saya bermain sama sisi imajinatif saya ngebayangin konser Björk. melalui deskripsi mereka terntang hebat-nya tatanan panggung, lighting n aksi panggung nya Björk yang sampe telanjang kaki
Ga tau kenapa kok euphoria konser Björk sampe bikin saya merinding ya..hehe
Ini salah satu tulisan yang bikin saya merinding:
http://solehsolihun.multiply.com/photos/album/59/Minim_Bicara_Banyak_Aksi
http://adianti.multiply.com/journal/item/39/love_you_more_than_ever…bjork…?replies_read=3
http://satriaramadhan.multiply.com/photos/album/112/Bjork_the_three_first_songs_photos
*thanks to media called: multiply
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Tanggal 17 :
Biasanya anda tidak ingin dicampuri ataupun mencampuri
urusan orang. Tetapi anda ramah dan bahkan terkadang
menjadi orang yang senang akan pesta sehingga anda
selalu berada di sekitar teman anda. Seringkali anda
melalukan sesuatu menurut kemauan anda dan hal ini
kadang melampaui batas. Orang terkadang memandang anda
seperti anak kecil dan tidak begitu menarik karena hal
ini. Urusan cinta, karakter anda sangat menyenangkan
sehingga menarik lawan jenis anda, bahkan banyak yang
tertarik dengan kuat. Hal ini membuat anda sering
terperangkat dalam beberapa pilihan saat anda harus
memilih salah satu.
Job Fair In China
can you imagine that?
maybe someday we’re gonna see TKC (Tenaga Kerja China) in Indonesia. 
taken from : http://www.disitu.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=1982&Itemid=27
something about…
Ssst…tau ga ‘anu’ Jamie Aditya ukurannya minimalis!
Segala cara udah dicoba untuk ga ngecewain calon istrinya.
dari latihan ‘gituan’ tiap hari, sampe bela-belain dateng ke Ma’ Erot.
Berhasil ga ya?
Ga sabar nonton film “XL Extra Large” yang di garap sama Monty Tiwa.
Apalagi kalo bukan ngeliat aksi-nya Jamie Aditya yang jadi ’Deni’ disini.
Yaaay!! Can’t wait to see you Jamie!!
10 Signs You Marry The Wrong Person
By Dov Heller
With the divorce rate over 50%, too many are apparently making a serious mistake in deciding whom to spend the rest of their life with. To avoid becoming a “statistic,” try to internalize 10 insights.
1. You pick the wrong person because you expect him/her to change after you’re married.
The classic mistake! NEVER MARRY POTENTIAL!! The Golden Rule is, if you can’t be happy with the person the way he or she is now, don’t get married. As a colleague of mine so wisely put it, “You actually can expect people to change after their married…for the worst!” So when it comes to the other person’s spirituality, character, personal hygiene, communication skills, and personal habits, make sure you can live with these as they are now.
2. You pick the wrong person because you focus more on chemistry than their character.
Chemistry ignites the fire, but good character keeps it burning. Beware of the “I’m in love” syndrome. “I’m in love” often means, “I’m in lust.” Attraction is there, but have you carefully checked out this person’s character?
Here are four characteristics to definitely check for:
* Humility: -Does this person believe that “doing the right thing” is more important than personal comfort?
* Kindness: - Does this person enjoy giving pleasure to other people?
* How does s/he treat people s/he doesn’t have to be nice to?
* Does s/he do volunteer work? Give to charity?
* Responsibility: -Can I depend on this person to do what s/he says s/he is going to do?
* Happiness: -Does this person like himself? Does s/he enjoy life?
- Is s/he emotionally stable?
Ask yourself:
Do I want to be more like this person?
Do I want to have a child with this person?
Would I like my child to turn out like him or her?
3. You choose the wrong person because you do not share a common life goal and priorities.
There are three basic ways we connect with another person:
a) Chemistry and compatibility
b) Share common interests
c) Share common life goal.
Make sure you share a deeper level of connection that sharing life goals provide. After marriage, the two of you will either grow together or grow apart. To avoid growing apart, you must figure out what you’re living for while you are single-and then find someone who has come to the same conclusion as you. This is the true definition of a soul mate. A soul mate is a goal mate… two people who ultimately share the same understanding of life’s purpose and therefore share the same priorities, values and goals.
4. You pick the wrong person because you do not have deeper emotional connection.
To evaluate whether you have a deeper emotional connection or not, ask: “Do I respect and admire this person?” This does not mean, “Am I impressed by this person?” We are impressed by a Mercedes. We do not respect someone because they own a Mercedes. Yes, you should be impressed by qualities of creativity, loyalty, determination, etc., but do you actually respect and admire this person who possesses these qualities?
Also ask: “Do I trust this person?” This also means, “Is he/she emotionally stable? Do I feel I can rely on him/her?